Power and Next
I have been thinking about Next. The Next that will be facing you, me, all of us.
The ‘Next’ that will emerge from pain and struggle of COVID19.
I have been thinking:
- What will ‘next’ look like?
- How will I adjust?
- How will I ensure I hold onto the new importance that has emerged for me during this COVID19 time?
- What learnings must I ensure I don’t lose sight of?
- And how can I not fall back into ways that I have got rid of when I return to the spaces that will feel like the ‘comfort zone’?
What does Next look like?
Perhaps it is like New Year’s Resolution?
Actually, that is flippant and meaningless for some of us who went through the “fire storm” of NYE 2020. I don’t want to get too heavy, but I certainly don’t want to be light and frivolous.
Let me step through some of the tips that are helping me with my thoughts of understanding my power and ‘Next’.
Reconnect with your Why
My passion for my work was born out of September 11 and I have had time to look back at my progress and my achievements during ‘iso’. I have had time to look forward and see “what else” but mostly I have held in my hands and had a good look at my why, my purpose, my passion and it remains the same.
Do you know your why?
Does your why shine during your day-to-day? Can you see your why connecting with those you will restart sharing your day-to-day with? And what about the different spaces some of may find ourselves in; can you make sure you can see and feel your purpose?
Dust off your core values
I have been dusting off my core values these last couple of weeks because affectus has been facilitating a number of values workshops.
It is wonderful to see people exploring the concept of core personal values. And then to consider and plan about how to have conversations with others that may share the same values or may have different values.
I believe starting with values when we begin to reconnect is important personally, professionally and (dare I say it) globally.
If you are unsure of your core values please get in touch and we can take you and your workteam can help you with Values. There is so much power to be drawn on through knowing your values.
Know your responses
How have you responded during this time of crisis, challenge, bumpy ride?
I have re-identified that I like to think about things not for a long time. I’m not totally a contemplative person, but if a significant concept is being considered I like to think and then to respond and write and find a process.
I now have great insight and personal knowledge about me that I will take forward to assist me and others.
How do you respond?
What is your way of connecting with a complex concept?
Can you sense the personal power you have at your disposal by just knowing this?
Establish your needs
This is a tricky one but…
If you want Next to be brighter for you (and those that you share your day-to-day with) then being honest, open and generous with your needs is a good move.
I have found this a time of deeply understanding my needs around my why and at the same time being more empathetic and aware of the people that I care about. My needs are challengingly intertwined with everyone else’s needs. I don’t want all of those needs to become a complete mess so by getting my needs clear I will assist us all.
Have you established your needs and are you ready to work with others needs Next?
Find your power
I love the concepts of personal and positional power. It is interesting to understand that unless you have given yourself time to explore the concept of personal power then it is often a very blurry concept.
I can feel my personal power wax and wane. However, by knowing my power I am able to give myself a bit of a talking to when I feel it dissipating and I can mentally call on it and most times it returns to me. But I have become aware, during this time of pandemic, that my personal power overwhelm others.
I think that understanding the power that you have and the power you can call upon is so important as we move to Next.
Next may look somewhat familiar or not at all familiar or anywhere in between. But knowing the power that you can draw on will be very useful when you step into Next.
Have the conversations.
Golly now that is glib and I know that’s easier said than done. I know, however, if there was ever a time where you can bring self-knowledge and deeper understanding to conversations about you and Next this will is the time.
It will be easy to chat, easy to be light. It is important that we have the courageous conversations. To think through the why, what, who how and when.
We should all be aware to the importance of having the conversations. Ppeople holding leadership positions should be aware of the conversations to be had and should be making space and opportunities.
Next is not going to be simple or linear.
Next may be wobbly, foggy and unsure. But I am looking for better.
Next can be better. Because, if we each use our self-awareness and access our personal power we can have the important conversations from a position and ‘Next’ will be better.
Head to Lockdown leadership it will help you with Next also. Click through to Lockdown Leaders for practical and useful materials, workshops and information.